Players -- You, your significant other, and one other willing partner

Scenario -- You and your significant other have many times joked of such a situation. Or perhaps have found yourselves entertained by it through some adult movie. However to seriously ask your significant other, such a question, finds you a bit nervous. You don't know what the attraction is to such a situation. I guess it is like the curiosity of trying a drug for the first time.

Your significant other -- "What would you think of involving another man or woman in a sexual episode?"

Questions -- Does the gender of the third person change your view on saying yes or no? Is it the thought of your significant other in sexual congress with someone else that would make you jealous? Or is it that your significant other is special to you and should not be shared with anyone else, like passing a bag of chips around?

Wow. I have to say that I was really surprised at some of the responses that I got to my previous post. I guess that I was proven that this is a great medium in which to find a variety of people and schools of thought.

I really must say, you ladies surprised me more than anything. I guess I thought that my view on it was more widespread than it is. Put apprently more women then I thought are not bothered by it.

I guess I feel like more of a prude now then I did before I did that post. But that is the thing that makes us all interesting and hella fun to interact with.

I guess it was my upbringing. Or it was what my father told me, she said "Always respect her time of the month". So as a pre-teen I kind of took that as, just leave it alone, kinda of like "pick your battles". So it's never really been an issue. If sex comes up and it's that time, I just wait. But I'm usually not in the dark, as Mrs. W warns me ahead of time so that I can be prepared.

That's me.

But thank you all so much for your frank comments, honesty, and the maturity displayed in your comments. I really wanted to get some thoughts on this, and see how or if they were different from mine. Once again, thank you for stopping by and leaving your thoughts.

Take care everyone.

May U Live 2 See The Dawn

WARNING: This post is nothing less than adult. And sometimes a subject that even embarresses adults. Please do not take it as a post for shock value. It is a honest question in a forum where I can get responses on a wider scale. With that out of the way . . .

Players -- You and your significant other

Scenario -- In an unexpected turn of events, you and your significant other end up being able to spend the whole evening together alone. After enjoying a meal and perhaps a movie or some other entertainment, you return home.

You enjoy conversation, a glass of wine (whiskey, beer, whatever) and cuddle up on the couch. As you talk and enjoy your time together the mood changes to a sexual tone. Upon reaching this mood your significant other informs you that she is going through her menstral cycle.

Your significant other -- "It's okay with me, if you are okay with it."

Questions -- Men, if consentual, is sex now out of the equation? Why or why not? Ladies, what are your feelings on sexual intercourse during menstral cycle?

Players -- You, waitress, other customers

Scenario -- You are at a fine resturant (either by yourself or with friends, either way you've offered to pay the bill) and enjoying a nice dinning experience to start.

After your food arrives, another group (large, like 10-15) arrives in your waitress' area. As you eat, you find it troublesome to get your waitress' attention. The large group of drunken buisness men (I use that example as I have had this experience far too often) are keeping the waitress' attention; running for this and running for that. She has not forgotten about you, but can't get away from these men. They are somewhat lecherous and ignorant, and you feel your blood boiling to the point of a Mos Eisley bar fight.

Waitress -- "I'm sorry, I have missed you. Is there anything I can get you?"

Questions -- Should the waitress' tip be affected by her service before, after, or the whole experience all together? Do you think she was ignoring you or busy? How would you tip and why?

Players -- You, your significant other, and your best friend

Scenario -- You and your significant other are at a party with friends and mutual friends. During the course of the night you have had some drinks and visited with friends and are ready to go home. You go to your significant other and ask them if they would like a ride home (even though they drove here themselves) because they have had alot to drink. They decline and you say your goodbyes and head home.

After resting at home you find that your significant other hasn't called or anything. Bad thoughts enter your head and are worried he/she might have been in an accident or pulled over. So you return to the host of the party's house. You had called a few times and he/she didn't answer.

Upon entering the house, you find your significant other and your best friend "making out".

Significant Other -- "Sorry I was drunk. So was she. We didn't mean for it to happen."

Questions -- Should you have left your significant other alone with alcohol and others of the opposite sex? Or is he/she, his/her own person and thereby responsible for his/her own actions? Where would the relationship stand now?